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I went through the exact same thing with my dealer on my black Tundra.

I brought it in to have it "detailed" and came back later that day (8 hours) only to find that it had not had one drop of water on it and all the bugs from the night before still on it. The detailing shop told me personally, that you can do more damage removing the bugs from the paint than do any good.

I then asked him if I should never wash this damn vehicle as long as I own it because it might damage the paint.

Needless to say, I took it home and about 6-7 hours later and a lot of work, the truck looked 99.99% perfect. Still working on that .01% and always will because my truck can not be to clean!