I have owned a 2000 Durango, 2003 expedition(Garbage, see bilzex-
edmunds), 2003 Sequoia(lease) 2007 FJ(too small, great tow vehicle 5K) an now a Crewmax.
Durango and Crewmax yank(ed) my boat(4600lbs) and family around like it was'nt there.
4.7 Seq,. worked at it but it has been the most comfortable ride I have had. 5.7 tundra gets better mileage towing and around town.
FJ towed it- 6% grade no problem.
Felt the Ridgeline FWD was not stout enough, but it would have got the nod before the FJ and the Tundra as I only tow the boat a few times year.