I've only had the lock right pins break on me. Right before my driver side axle shaft blew. In anycase, after about a 1.5 years, I switched my spider gears for a lock right and had no problems other than what I just mentioned. Running 4.88's and 35" tires. No other issues.
Having gone through 3 third members, I thing something is wrong with either the install of the parts (bent housing, bad third, something). Or you are on the skinny too much when off roading.
As the motto goes: "Build it, wheel it, break it, fixt it". It's a viscous cycle and an expensive one to.