Speed Sensor Wire and ECM for AVIC-D3

[Dynatnt1]

Okay, I have been doing research for hours now. I have figured out that my VSS wire is Green with an Orange stripe. It can be found in the ECM behind the glove box. I have even heard plug E4 2nd from left pin 5. Still do not see a green wire with orange stripe. My question is, where exactly is the ECM and which one is plug E4? Or is there is any other way to tell me where to hook in my VSS for a 2002 Tundra?
If you happen to know where the reverser wire is as well, I could use that also...

Thanks,
Toby