Congrats sbeausol on your recent
ebay win and thanks for your input here.
I finally got one as well and it has the 08 connector and is full of wires on the console side. Sequoia. yes, i finally got impatient.

but not 243$ worth.
If I tried to plug it into your pic of 08, #13 is the only missing wire. From looking at the colors of wire, the top two rows go to the homelink while the bottom 4 go to moonroof switches. The white, black, and and lightest green of the map lights and their switches disappear into the electrical tap.
Earlier I checked my current wire harness and it does only have 3 wires and the config seemed to be the same.
Unfortunately/fortunately I'm getting married and going to Cancun so I won't be able to play with this for a week or so.
Also, your M6 pic is showing the infamous red X. I'm curious to see it though. and while I have experience making my own wiring harnesses for old arcade game cabinets, I may be interested in T-Nick's extra harness should it be available on my return.