I have not run into this problem, but I needed to tow a 16' bass boat recently and had a hitch on my 2000 Tundra Limited but had never towed anything. I was towing from MS to TX and needed trailer lights. When checking with the parts department @ Toyota of Dallas, I found that the 2000 Tundra had a 1st year issue and Toyota fixed this with a 2 part retro kit. The kit ran me about $90 but is SO easy to install. Here are the part numbers you will need if you want this setup. 08921-34860 and PT220-34012. Toyota of Dallas has an online parts website @
www.toyotapartsales.com. You can enter the part number in the part # section and get their internet price and order online. Very good prices from what I've found looking on the web. I live local to DFW and picked up my parts there, but they ship parts all over the US. If you need to call, ask for Barbara in "Internet Parts". Supper Nice and great Customer Service. They have another website @
www.trdparts4u.com where you can lookup very common parts. Their 800 phone numbers are (866-477-3398) and (800-784-4695).
The install is basically a converter box which mounts behind the drivers rear taillight and 2 seperate wiring harnesses. Measure, drill 2 holes and mount converter box. Plug in the included 8 pin and single pin wiring harness to the box. Run the harness through the bottom of the taillight section and over the frame and under the bed. Secure with enclosed plastic zip ties. Plug other end of harness into wiring harness already installed on your truck from the factory under middle rear of the bed just behind the hitch. Take 2nd wiring harness (PT220-34012) and plug into an "offshoot" connector of the first harness you just installed. Mount this 4 pin connector bracket to bracket mount on your hitch and your done. Plug in your trailer and go. No more blown fuses and nothing to touch under the hood.
Hope this helps.
Doug H