I finally found what I was looking for. There is an awesome trailer plug that is an aftermarket with a clean connection to the Toyota factory plugs. It is called Hoppy Multi-tow and the part no. is
HY43385. This handy little unit plugs directly into the 4 wire and 3 wire plugs under the Tundra and Sequoia rear to give you a 7 blade (not pin) female receptacle
AND a 4 pin vehicle side connector next to it. So you get the best of both worlds without any splicing and no adapters to lose. A web search reveals the price to be $39.99 with free shipping on
ebay in the stores section, $33.99 at hitches4less.com with free shipping but it is also available at northerntool.com for $24.99 with $5.12 shipping. It is part no. 633385 at northerntool.com. Wonderful device. Better than I was expecting because I wanted the 7 pole connection for my trailer with an electric tongue jack and I may mount a winch to it but now I can also tow trailers with 4 wire connectors. I am going to order mine today.