Okay quick update for this week for anyone that may care....
Okay after test fitting some different brand and size wheels I have kinda settled on wheels #3 to my own surprise but I think it looks better than the all chrome bling ones but thats just my personal tastes.
On to what I have learned this week.
Tried on a 35X12.5X20 Nitto tire which is a true 35" if not a hair bit more if you look up the specks. The tire wheel combo looks awsome on the front of the truck there is just 2 areas of concern that has to be addressed if you plan to go this size. Front plastic behind the fog lights will need a bit of trimming in the center lower area or have it removed along with the smaller mud flap, also you will have to remove the rear mudflap and that will be just a given. The harder issue will be the front body mount bracket it just hitting that like in a 1 1/2" spot so that will require some trimming hammering and maybe some welding if you still want to go with a true 35" tire like Nitto's. I do have to say the Nitto looked great on the truck from the front and sides

Now if you want to go with a 35" that actually measures around 34.xx you should be able to do it without the metal work of the body mount and just some plastic trimming up front. They didn't have anything in a size that was 12.5" wide so they have placed a order for a procomp 35X12.5X20 (Xtreeme AT) thats should fit without metal work too but I wanted to see what it looked like before I made my finaly decisions on if I want to do some metal cutting work or not. Oh is case anyone considering the procomp tire they are directional so tire rotating maybe a a issue if you like to cross rotate whihc I prefer to do on a 4WD. The other tire they had was a BFG AT that was 34.xx but it was only 11" wide which I just didn't like the look that much so thats why they are looking at getting in the procomp for me to look at. With some more researchng TOYO also has a 34.xx tire in a 12.5 width but its a fairly new size and he could not locate one currently and may be on backorder for a while.
Well thats what I have learned today after work on my stop at the tire shop. I guess I'll sit around this weekend and try and decide what I want to do next and wait for the procomp to show up too.
Figured I share what I learned today since I know some of you here may be interested in it.