Just bought my first truck, after having 3 bimmers and couldn't be happier; my fishin poles finally fit in my car and i dont have to worry bout gettin mud in the car

. I went with the 4.6 double cab with trd and sr5 (i didn't see any need to jump to the 5.7, for me it would just be a waste of gas.) I want to have the exhaust replaced with a throaty-er one,
running boards, and possibly a lift but being new to trucks and there being so many options, im just confused more than anything. I like quality and don't mind paying for it (why i went with the tundra).
My questions are:
Is there a hierarchy to the brands that produce the exhausts/lifts or is just a mans opinion of which better?
As for the exhaust, I want a deep loud exhaust but no tickets unless its worth it....any suggestions?