Sorry for your heartache. I would give the dealership a chance to fix the problem. I would let still let them know you are not purchasing the vehicle unless it comes the way you want it. After a period of time without satisfaction, cancel the order and start over. This time order from out of state if it is that important to you. I live in texas and we special ordered our first sequoia from Dianne in Southern California. They have no port extras and she can get it just the way you want it, of course it would require a wait but to get the exact vehicle you want it is prob worth it. The shipping charge was not that bad to me and the vehicle was perfect. Good Luck.
Cheers.
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