My truck is pulled up quite a bit from the Dodge. The beds are almost the same height. We're talking maybe an inch or two difference with the Dodge. When you're looking from the rear of the driveway, they look even. My cab was quite a bit longer than his. His back door looked very small compared to the Tundra. The overfenders and design really won me over yesterday over the Dodge.
If I could change a few things on the Tundra, it would first be the turning radius, then to have the option for the gunmetal wheel color that the Sequoia offers. Silver is nice, but that gunmetal would look killer on my truck.
Next, I think I would change the entire appearance of the grill. These trucks look "skinny" in someones rearview mirror because of the narrow grill pattern. It's not horrible, but doesn't have the presence of other trucks.
Finally, I would enjoy getting a little better mpg. 14 isn't horrible for a crew 4x4 v8, but when I see the new 5.7's getting 16-18, I get jealous. I guess the several thousand I saved over the new model year pays for the gas, right?